So I’m met with Demande for freelance work today and in true Demande fashion he changed our 2 hour meeting to a 1 hour meeting at the last minute. Classic Demande. He said he’s just “so busy” right now. Okay, I guess, and I’m trying not to be annoyed, but I’m also trying not to figuratively die over here. Why you ask? Well because I’m now fucking convinced that his “pregnant” girlfriend isn’t actually pregnant (hence the previous quotes). Last we left off, I recommended a fantastic English speaking doctor. While Demande said she was grateful for the offer, she told him she doesn’t need to see a doctor because she feels fine. (Insert internal maniacal laughter and red flag here). Well, I tell him, let me educate you about something called a missed miscarriage. While I didn’t have time to delve into the specifics as to my being so fucking knowledgeable about this particular subject (perhaps you’ll recall my last pregnancy ended in a missed miscarriage), I was secretly ELATED that I get to tell Demande what a missed miscarriage is. I explained emphatically that a missed miscarriage is a very dangerous and traumatizing situation because you physically feel nothing is wrong, but the baby has stopped growing yet it remains inside the uterus (which is exactly what happened to me earlier this year). He said he would like to go to the doctor with her once while she’s still here (only for 10 more days which I’m sure she’ll stall out). THEN…then it gets better. She said her friends told her that it isn’t safe to fly early in pregnancy. I’m sorry what now? Her EXPERT friends. I’m fucking sure. Actually, it’s perfectly safe to fly early in pregnancy if it’s a healthy pregnancy which his girlfriend claims it is. It’s later in pregnancy that pregnant women shouldn’t fly. The more I thought about it, the more I wondered is this her diabolical plan? She’ll fly back home and “miscarry”. That’s in quotes because I fully believe that SHE CANNOT POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT. Fucking hell. What kind of horrible person is she?!?! Of course, all my assessments of her are based on supposition. BUT…BUT…if she was actually pregnant, why wouldn’t she be at the doctor every week before 12 weeks (no matter what fucking country she’s in). I mean she’s a pregnancy expert right? Of course she is because it’s her first “pregnancy”. I rolled my eyes so hard (right in front of Demande) that I almost fell off my chair. BUT WAIT! THERE’S MORE! They got a puppy! OMFG! He said he didn’t want a puppy but a cat as he’s a cat person, but she wanted a puppy. First, he said he thought it was too early in the relationship, and he’s having a difficult time taking care of it. HA HA HA! What does he think taking care of a baby will be like?!?! And the dog has to stay in Japan while she returns to her home country for the next six months and will be entirely his responsibility. She’s pushing everything on him trying to entrap him however she can. I said “It seems like you’re feeling conflicted.” The look on his face said that what I just said was an understatement. I can’t give this woman the benefit of the doubt any longer. Not until he shows me an ultrasound picture of his “babies” from a clinic in Japan. Kudos to her for this brilliant but fucking psychopathic plan. Because Demande is my friend and I don’t give two fucks about this woman, I sincerely hope he isn’t terribly hurt by this woman’s behavior. Demande can be very sensitive. I mean this guy went AWOL when his cat died. It’s taking every fiber of my being not to call out her shit right in front of him.
What do you guys think? Can she really be pregnant with twins? Is she manipulating Demande for the visa and his money? I’d be interested to hear what others think. Who knows? Maybe my feelings are colored by my need to protect my friends.
That’s all for today. Be well.